Tips for Planning the Perfect Proposal

There's nothing quite like asking the love of your life to marry you. But before you get down on one knee, there's a lot of planning that goes into making sure the moment is perfect. Here are a few tips to help make sure your proposal goes off without a hitch.

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1. Get to know their family and friends

One of the most important things you can do in planning your proposal is to get to know your partner's family and friends. Why? Because odds are good they'll be involved in your proposal in some way, shape, or form. If you're planning on surprising your partner with a ring at dinner with their parents, it's helpful to know what their family’s favorite food is so you can make a reservation at their favorite restaurant. Or if you're thinking about popping the question during a friend's birthday party, it might be helpful to have an understanding of how close they are with that friend so you can gauge how much of a surprise it will be. The more you know about the people who are important to your partner, the better equipped you will be to plan a proposal that truly surprises and delights them.

2. Keep it personal

When it comes to proposals, personalization is key. This is YOUR moment, after all, and YOUR relationship. So don't feel like you have to do what everyone else does - instead, put your own spin on things and make the proposal uniquely yours. If you're not sure where to start, think about some of your favorite memories together or inside jokes that only the two of you would understand. By infusing your proposal with personal details like this, you'll not only make it more memorable for your partner, but also for yourself! Don’t be afraid to rely on your partner’s best friend for tips, as they probably know all about your partner’s DREAM proposal.

3. Make sure the timing is right

As with everything in relationships, timing is everything when it comes to proposals. You don't want to propose too soon, but you also don't want to wait too long and risk losing the element of surprise. Ultimately, there is no magic number of months or years that determines when the "right" time is - it differs for every couple. A good rule of thumb is to wait until you're both at a place in your relationship where marriage feels like the natural next step - then, go for it!


Planning a proposal can seem daunting, but it doesn't have to be! By following these simple tips - getting to know their loved ones, personalizing the moment, and timing it right - you're well on your way to making sure your proposal is everything they've ever dreamed of...and more!

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